my coaching philosophy:
When it comes to my coaching I believe in and teach about the dualities of life and healing - we can be hurting AND healing; we can be suffering AND finding joy; we can be still learning AND confident. Healing isn’t linear and it isn’t a light at the end of the tunnel, it’s more like a game of chutes and ladders. Sometimes, in lighter seasons, in seasons of strength, we climb up the ladders of healing, but with chronic illness there are roadblocks that we can easily hit even after big stretches of healing and upward momentum - flares, hard symptom days, and medication changes, to name a few. Those moments we may fall down a chute by letting our pain consume us, letting the google search rabbit hole get the best of us, or losing sight of our own strength that we still hold even in darker seasons. But with the proper mindset tools you can get back up and start climbing those ladders once again.
And that isn’t to make healing sound daunting, but realistic. There is so much toxic positivity in the chronic illness space and I got sick of it (no pun intended). No, healing isn’t an end goal. No, healing isn’t always pretty. No, you can’t just “choose to be positive.” Healing is messy, but my god is it beautiful.
With the mindset tools and work I teach my clients and PTEA folks they make sustainable, forever changes, that they can carry up the ladders and down the chutes. Tools that allow them to take charge of the only things we can control in life - our minds, our emotions, and our reactions. Tools that allow them to validate their suffering and pain, while also leaning into trust, mental resilience and self-compassion. And along with tools and mindset work, I stress the importance and necessity of community to my clients. I stress the importance and provide that community, because life and chronic illness is easier when you have a family to rely on.
So welcome, to my life, my business, and my chronic illness family (whether you’re a chronic illness fighter yourself, a caregiver, a partner, friend or family member of someone who is chronically ill, or you’re simply curious about this life).
I can’t wait to get to know you.